Within the world of financial domination there are many types of both slaves and Dommes. Where would we all be without variety?! Some subs refer to themselves as ‘community subs’ meaning that they are not associated to any one Mistress and instead send or lay tribute for whoever they choose within that moment. As well as that act, they may also interact with and/or promote a number of women who appeal to them and their desires at any one time. For some submissives, this is exactly what they need – an outlet to release their financial submission yet without the emotional binds or associated expectations being laid upon them. Within the online world of Findom they are within their own right a sort of service – a prelude perhaps to the service that I expect, an encouragement to those Dommes new to the scene and what they do is perfectly legitimate to them and their desires.
Community subs
I often wonder whether the community subs exist purely because that is what they want or whether the ‘fast food’ approach to Findom has encouraged it. In a world where drains are commonplace and few Dommes promote the notion of long-term servitude, is it only natural that submissive men have grown in this way to feed that requirement? What once was niche is now the common way for things to be done.
Owned slaves
As a Mistress though, I am able to be honest and state quite simply that I desire more. A tribute when laid by a slave who knows Me instantly carries with it weight and meaning beyond the sum that it represents. It tells Me that they know who and what I am entirely and feel the weight of My power and authority, they desire all that I offer them without exception and wish for the future that I envisage. With their tribute they tell Me the place that I hold in their lives and when done by an owned slave, reinforces and reignites those stirrings that say they shall walk with Me for their lifetime.
Domme-hopping
A Domme-hopping sub can never hope to be held in My thoughts, he can never hope to grow into a slave worthy of being owned, he will never see what his actions and service adds to the Mistress he could serve, he will never know the thrill of having pushed himself for the one who may own him nor the elation of having sacrificed to honour a Woman worthy of it. He has had a ‘quick fix’. If I were to be brutally honest (and when am I not?!), the sub is making it all about them. They are self-serving, fulfilling an itch that needs to be scratched and it is rather sad. They lack the strength to become the slave that they could and so exist in a limbo.
Are community subs welcome?
Does that mean that community subs are not welcome? Of course they are but they should be honest with themselves. Yes, they are showing that they have found Me, that they appreciate My work, My words and My images. They tell Me through the act of laying tribute that in that moment they found within Me what they desired. Yet I will be clear, My deepest desires are realised through long-term committed service from a slave. Nothing else comes remotely close. I also wonder if the submissive on some level realises that he is missing out. After all, what satisfaction can truly be gained by this fleeting encounter by either party. He will be forgotten by Me as quickly as I spend his tribute. My owned boys are carried always.
