I find that there is a great deal of misconception around money in the world of Findom which is disconcerting. The simplest way to state it is that there is no such thing as slave money. If you are a submissive, if you are owned, if you serve, if you have a Domme, then you do not have money. Let Me explain why.
The Vanilla World
In the vanilla-world men typically work for a salary. They may well have a boss to which they are held to account or run their own business where they assume the head position. The patriarchy has taught men that their earning potential is a symbol of their status and is representative of their worth. The items they go on to buy and the lifestyle that they enjoy is a symbol of that net worth and is how they may be judged by others. A deep emphasis is placed upon the idea that money leads to happiness, it provides choice and ultimately power.
Those are ideas that must be sacrificed if you wish to serve Me. The idea of a man holding power in any form is not a possibility. The total power exchange between us is something to surrender to gladly. It is not a sign of weakness to submit to My will, but one of great strength and pleasure. If you are in employment you will come to understand that you do not work for a company, for a supervisor or even yourself. I am the reason that you work and it is for Me that you shall endeavour and strive to do your best. After all, the more you do the greater the potential for your success which in turn is a success for Me. As My slave, all you are is a reflection on Me and I will not tolerate nor accept idleness and a reluctance to excel. If a slave is prepared to give less than his all in a life that I visualise for him, then he is not worthy of My designs for him.
Total Power Exchange
As a result any and all money that is acquired by a slave is a by-product of Me being present in his life. I am the reason there are fruits for their labours, the inspiration for it being acquired and the rightful possessor of it all. In time, a slave may hope to be owned and then in turn I own not only him but all that he possesses. Again, that will include all money and possessions. The act of ownership does not come with provisos and exclusions. It is an entire way of being and one to be highly sought after and when earned a source of great pride.
Whose Money?
The moment a slave wrongly assumes that the money in his account is his, the balance of power is totally skewed. With that thought he reverts to the vanilla life of old and with it comes the notion that he has a choice. He will believe that he is able to determine whether he pays his Mistress and how much. Some assume that what should be the ‘laying of tribute’ is actually the ‘giving of money’. With that difference in opinion there can come the idea of entitlement – the more money that is passed from slave to Domme, the more interaction/time he should get as if it is laid in exchange for services rendered. In reality there is no correlation whatsoever between the depth of relationship with Me and the money laid in tribute. All who serve should be giving all that is possible and that sum will look different for every slave. I am the one to decide if the slave’s maximum possible tribute is sufficient for My time or not and it is only My opinion that matters.
To make it plain, a slave who serves Me does not have his own money. All he is and all he has is at My disposal. I ensure that he has sufficient to live in accordance to what is necessary for him to continue in his service to Me for the long term but that is an allowance which should be seen as a gift and a kindness on My part. To overspend is to steal from Me. All of My wants, wishes and desires are paramount. Delight in being owned and the loss of all superficial, materialistic behaviours. That is the mark of an individual who will be kept at My feet for the long-term.
